10000000%. I waver between 'she really wants help but doesn't know how to accept it' and 'nah, she's a drama queen' depending on my mood. LOL

Hahaha! It's basically a piece of brass pipe that's 1 1/2" wide and 24" long, with threads on both ends so it can be screwed into a fitting. I'd just never run into one that long before. The guys are usually using ones that are no longer than 6". Whiiiiiich sounds suggestive in and of itself. LOL